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Here's what I'm all about...

 

Hello, my friend. I’m Coley. I have a Computer Science degree (aka I have suffered). I work in tech. I love psychology, Warhammer 40K, and helping people. 

I also know the most effective system for online dating that you will ever find. I’m very happy you found me, because I would love to teach it to you. If you’ve got a strategic mind like me, it’s right down your alley.

Have you ever asked yourself:

  • “Is it possible for average guys to have any success with online dating?”
  • “I don’t have many (or any) good pictures of myself, so how can I get matches?”
  • “It doesn’t seem to make any difference if I put effort into my opening message. What should I say?"
  • “What am I supposed to say to keep conversations fun and actually meet the girl?”

If so, then you’ve come to the right place!

Whether you are struggling to get any matches, or you need help matching with girlfriend-quality women, I am here for you.

My Story

If you couldn’t tell from the fact I love Warhammer, I was extremely lonely and awkward growing up. All I wanted was a girlfriend, but I had no male role models in my life. I was not naturally gifted with talking to girls, so I struggled.

I barely have any pictures of myself before my mid-twenties. I was too insecure to let anyone take a picture of me.

After countless cringe encounters with girls, I finally managed to get a girlfriend which lasted for a couple of years. After that, I tried dating apps for the first time. I’m 6’2” and learned how to be decent-looking, but I never had good results.

(That's the first pic I ever took for dating apps. Did not do well.)

As I struggled with getting any matches, I became less and less picky with my swiping. When I did get a match, my various, witty opening messages didn’t seem to do any better than saying, “Hey you’re cute,” so that’s what I sent to every girl.

Any swipe could lead to me finding the love of my life, so I just kept swiping. But the more I swiped, the fewer matches I got, and the more desperate I became. My self-esteem tanked. So many guys are stuck in this cycle.

Fast forward a few years and everything changed...

 

I just got out of another relationship. After taking some time to work on myself, I was ready to date again, but this time, I had a secret weapon. 

I saw an advertisement for an online dating system, and I ended up exchanging emails with one of the creators. He was so appreciative of my feedback that he let me access the system for free. I had seen plenty of other dating app advice/strategies, but this system blew my mind.

I IMMEDIATELY started having way better results than I ever had before. You know those ridiculously beautiful girls whose profiles feel like a waste of time to even swipe on because of how gorgeous they are? My inbox was suddenly full of messages with them.

 

You see, 99.99% of guys on dating apps have ZERO idea of what they’re doing. Girls like I just described are desperate for cool, chill guys who stand out from the rest and aren’t bending over backwards for them. If you know how to create a profile that makes you stand out, that’s all it takes to start matching with them.

Anyway, I did such a good job at implementing the system that they hired me to help coach their other students.

The original creators of the system have since shut it down to move into greener (crypto) pastures, so it is lost forever.

Until now. I retained all of the knowledge, as well as a burning desire to help other guys like me get the love that they deserve. 

When I find something new that I find interesting, I get OBSESSED. The system ignited an obsession with online dating and relationships within me that continues to this day.

Now that you’ve discovered this website, you get to benefit from my obsession.

I will be outputting a lot of high-quality content on this website. Everything I publish will be information that I know I personally would find extremely interesting and useful. It will start with blog articles and probably expand to videos/podcasts further down the line. I will cover everything from dating to lifestyle to personal growth. I want to be your one-stop-shop for getting the love (and overall) life of your dreams. There is an overwhelming amount of content out there, and I want to be your primary source.

At some point in the near future, I will release a course that will teach you the entire online dating system in detail. It will be the greatest online dating course you have ever or will ever see. You will have so much knowledge about how to succeed in online dating that nothing will be able to stop you.

Until the course is ready, enjoy all of the free content, and be sure to leave your email address so that you’ll be notified when the course is ready (and get my #1 opening message).

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